Prayers & Methods
Family Healing Prayer
I come before you just as I am.
Sometimes I question why things have happened to me and my family.
There are times when I look at my life and wonder what went wrong or wonder why something went right.
My family, my community, my country, are all in need of healing and unconditional love.
The blood of all of my ancestors is in me. I pray for all of my relatives, living and dead going back to the beginning of our family tree. I pray for the family of man.
Today I stand in for the rest of my family and ask for your help in removing any generational curses or negative karma from our family tree.
I pray that every negative action taken by any of us or against any of us is dissolved forever with pure unconditional love. My family may have said or done things that were not in their own interests and harmed other people.
If members of my family have harmed anyone in thought, words and deeds or if they have failed to do what is good or right, I regret that. I cannot impose my will over them and say that they are sorry, only that I am sorry, because I and other members of my family may still suffer the consequences of their actions.
I sever any negative karmic connections to my family tree, I cancel out any vows, spells, curses, contracts, vendettas, pledges, commitments or oaths taken by anyone in my bloodline. I resolve in my forebear’s name to surrender to you any conflicts, unlawfulness, immoral or illegal acts.
I sever our family connection to any deeds that were done against our fellow man- no matter how legitimate they may have seemed at the time.
Please heal any negative effects that have been transmitted through past generations and prevent such negative effects in future generations of my family tree.
I desire that all in my family be surrounded with unconditional love, good health, and good lives.
Disconnecting Cord Procedure
One of the greatest gifts and blessings you can do for yourself and for another person is to disconnect spiritual, emotion, mental, physical and ethereal cords with them. This allows you to see them as they really are in the present life. It resolves old karmic connections and debt, and has been known to change people’s lives and relationships for the better. Disconnecting means forgiving them, praying for them and turning them over to God with love. You can also disconnect with your old self, your old emotions (self-defeating habits, anger, worry, fear, depression and anxiety) and people who have used or abused you.
Over the next three days you will see the person you are blessing in the Disconnection with new vision that will allow you to see who they truly are in this life. You will release old feelings, allowing for a fresh start in the relationship, if you choose.
Begin by asking God to bless and protect all involved in this process.
Then say: “Please come here in Spirit ____________” and read your list of names. You can call them out in spirit since spirit is not attached to their body.
The person or persons you are blessing will gather in spirit on your right side. On your left side is the Golden Doorway to Heaven.
Then say: “I’m doing this with the Love and Light of God.
As I set you free, you must set me free.
No two spirits should hold each other as we have.
Now it’s time to let go.
I undo all that I have created in you.
I owe you nothing and you owe me nothing. All is forgiven.”
Then tell the person you love them and bless them, and anything else you want to tell them.
Then say: “I dissolve all cords, contracts, commitments, agreements, vows, spells, curses and all other karmic connections with love. All connections between me and ________ (read your list) are null and void.
Remove any resistance and help us to let go.
You are no longer allowed in my energy on any level of my being
unless you come with the Love and Light of God.”
“Anything you do in any way to harm me or those around me will reflect back to you, and you and that which stands behind you will absorb all karma.
Whether it be by your actions or the actions of others created by you,
You and that which stands behind you will absorb all karma.”
Next, call in the Archangel Michael to cut the cords and the Archangel Raphael to help heal your situation.
Then say: “I let you go, and
now undo all that I have created in you.
I set you free.”
Then say: “God – I give you ____ (read the list) — He/She/They are no longer my responsibility.
Take them where they need to go, to heal and grow.
I will not hold you anymore.
I set you free.
Go into the Light!”
When you feel this has happened, say: “Amen” or “So Be It” three times.
Then envision a giant bubble around you that protects you from any reconnection. Stay in the bubble for seven days. Do not discuss past or emotional issues with the person you are dissolving from. This will let you decide if you want them in your future.
The cord cutting gives you an opportunity to speak to the person safely and truthfully, without fear, while they are in Spirit form. You can say what you need to say, release what you need to release, express your love for them, and then turn them over to God. It is important to forgive the other person for whatever they have done against you. I used to tell people that they needed to forgive, not necessarily forget. However, that was short-sighted advice because while the forgiving part usually comes along, it creates another cord. We want to get rid of all those cords. This is important because once you release it is not something that will come up in your memory and is simply part of your past.
Dear Divine Spirit
I come before you just as I am.
I am sorry for my faults and shortcomings.
I regret all the times when I did not act out of love for myself and others.
Help me to forgive myself.
I renounce the darkness, evil and illness that seeks my attention.
I surround all those around me who have used or abused me with love.
I turn them over to you. They cannot hurt me anymore.
I will strive to love myself first, best and always.
Heal me, change me, and strengthen me in body, mind, soul and spirit.
-Richard M. Schickel